life as a dreamer

I think so many of us forget what reality is .....life has real issues and tears will fall, so many of the things we hope for or wish even never happen it's all in our minds the way we hope it will turn out more often than not we r all quilty of "seeing" how it will turn and then blaming the nearest loved one for not doing it that way...life is unexpected and crazy it is ups and downs hot and cold it is screaming ,crying hoping,it is birth and death and no matter what we want it is just life and u don't get to choose and change is just the other direction and even if all we can do is get on and hope not to hit to many bumps in the road well then isn't that enough why let "someone" make those choices whynot just hop on and see where u go ?
I will say i have made many a wrong turn i have let others push me and i came out ok when i just let go.....maybe someday i will have regrets and start blaming life and the cosmic order for fucking up my life but really i am living and whom am i to judge? i have everything i need..and it is all inside this house w/these people and we r not perfect and we make mistakes and we push and we laugh and cry we yell and in the end no one goes to bed ANGRY! and i know that LOVe lives here....